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Adjusting to American Culture
It is difficult to provide an accurate guide to American social relations and customs because various situations may require different responses. Americans are encouraged to be involved in the community, to express opinions, and to "question the system." This can make it difficult to understand what social customs are observed and can make it perplexing to find a comfortable way to act and live in the American environment.
Americans place much emphasis on individuality and personal identity. This is expressed by informality in appearance, interpersonal relationships, and methods of communication. Such informality can give the impression that Americans are promiscuous; however, it is not necessarily true. In some situations a behavior or dress of an individual may exhibit poor taste. As long as one does not infringe on the rights of others, he or she is permitted a great deal of flexibility in personal expression.
Life in the United States may at first seem rather rushed. Americans are usually time conscious, thus, punctuality is very important in many situations even among friends. When you make an appointment to see someone, you are expected to arrive at the appointed time. This is especially true with a doctor, professor or your advisor. If you are late, the person you were to see may be unable to meet with you.
The above section excerpted from the Michigan State University Handbook for International Students.
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